to the readers with divorced parents..

Dear to whom this concerns,

     It has-of course- express of comfort and albeit encouragement of endurance to this particular audience. You may be thinking huh, who are you to be in a position, to offer -if any- since my parents have not divorced yet or not in the divorced status on paper. True. Yet, desiring to speak truth and offer grand compassion has not stopped me from continuing in this gladly pursuit. Some of you may not have divorced parents but pending divorced parents that already have filed officially as "separated". See to that whatever comes out you may take or leave- This post is precedence in assurance for the matricula.

    In the crap reality potentially to secure in this world 🙋 , there is seldom downtime to cultivate the awareness how hard we are being in light of this to ourselves.  We may begin to pick apart ourselves. Or if not that, the hopelessness, the silent wails of pure motives begin and don't ever stop. Still so, the brink of failure in some perceptions is..not limiting to, the belief of recognize ourselves as victims in a major decision-completely normal , err on the anger attitude, experiencing depression,  denial, and anxiety. But the overwhelm that missing piece still-as ever- protrudes. The challenge remains the same, how are we going to get used to the change...how do I remain in control?


Lay down any sufficient doubts, as you continue to journey of heartbreak, the split up with the parents nothing to do with us, {(me)}. Hear me out, you are not alone. Whatever the case that may follow, one of parents' /parents remarrying, the afterthought is , we will be made more mature than if we didn't go through this trial, hard time. Another afterthought I would share is is that the world may fall before your eyes,and you may have to sort out all this confusion, but life is still actually beautiful. I promise you this.


If there is an angry attitude persisting,  I encourage you seek a professional who can help you with this issue. And your journey is not over. May we keep persisting to discover truth and floodgates of this brokenness roam away from our bodies.

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